dealing with criticism

 

 

很多时候，我们也会收到建议，事实上，你有自由做出不同的接纳态度，什么样的态度能体现你开放的心态，让他人下一次还乐意再给你好的建议呢？

 

We have three choices when dealing with criticism:
1. Say nothing
2. Attack the person verbally who is criticizing us
3. Express our feelings and opinions directly and honestly with respect to yourself and others. By saying things assertively we encourage others to be honest and open with us.
Listen carefully to the otherpoint of view - is it valid or true? Is it constructive? It is important to acknowledge what is being said, even if you do not agree. Then you can take the opportunity to state your beliefs.

面对批评或者建议，我们有3种方法可以选择：

l       不置可否

l       针尖对麦芒

l       尊重自己的感受也尊重他人，真诚直率的表达你的感觉和观点。自信的表达你对于能真诚开放的给我们提出建议者的感谢。

l       认真倾听他人的观点，判断是否符合实际？是否具建设性？即使你并不认同，是否有必要接受？然后，你再陈述你自己的观点。

思考一下在自己遇到的情境中，你会怎样选择？会遇到什么困难？